The King is coming, ready or not

What is the most epic event you have ever been invited to? Your wedding? Your child’s wedding? A V.I.P event? You heard about it and waited for your invitation to show up. When it comes you write down your name and carefully select the “Will Attend” box. You make sure to get it in the mailbox quickly. The anticipation begins. At first, it’s so far off you aren’t really thinking about it. At some point in the waiting, you need to buy an outfit. You get an idea of what you wish you could wear. You start looking, you start shopping. After much trial and error, searching and hoping, you find the right outfit. You make a hair appointment months in advance for the week of the event. You make a nail appointment. You buy a new mascara, a new purse, new earrings. As the event draws near, you are checking off your must do list with joyful anticipation. You have tried to think of everything. The day before the event you even clean out your car, fill up your tank and get a carwash. You want to be completely prepared. Nothing left to chance.

The day of the event is finally here and in your excitement you get ready way too early. There is nothing to do but wait. You can’t show up before it’s time. This is where overthinking can start. Maybe your outfit isn’t as great as you had thought. Maybe you need to fix your hair or make-up again. You worry about the directions, the contents of your purse and maybe even if your outfit is enough, if you are enough.

Matthew 25:5 As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept.

I think this is where the Church is at. We know the Bridegroom is coming. We accepted the invitation, we are Ready. Yet, as ready as we are, we wait. It’s hard. The finite world is crumbling around us. Every predictor that Jesus said to watch out for is happening. Wars, rumors of wars, famines, deception, spiritual rebellion and the one that hurts the most, the love of many growing cold. In the parable of the 10 virgins, they all got drowsy and slept. Even the ones who came prepared with oil in their lamps. It was late. It’s hard to stay awake. Anticipating something good while experiencing something bad is soul draining. We want our Savior. We long for the day of His return to collect His Church. We know He is coming but we don’t know when.

Matthew 25:8-13 And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ But the wise answered, saying, ‘Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’ 10 And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. 11 Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ 12 But he answered, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’ 13 Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.

We know we cannot give our oil away but what if in this time of waiting we could help others to get their oil? What if instead of overthinking, or sleeping, or trying to stay looking good before the Day Of The Lord, we get up and spread the gospel? When Jesus returns, if it is in my lifetime, I do not want to be sleeping. I want Him to catch me doing something good. We can all tell people where to go to get their oil. That is literally our job.

Matthew 28:19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit

While we are all called to spread the gospel, it looks slightly different for each one of us. Some people are called to tithe big amounts (but that doesn’t mean everyone’s 10% isn’t of equal value to The Lord) some are called to be missionaries. There are singers, writers, poets and artist that spread the gospel through their gifts. I think for most of us, we are the foot soldiers. It may not be glamourous, but you can’t have an army without soldiers. We are the ones who ask “Can I pray for You” or lend a Christian book or buy someone a Bible. The Mom’s out there this Summer taking not only their kids to VBS but the neighbor’s kids as well. The one’s who post Bible verses, the ones who pray fervently. The parents and grandparents who teach their children about Jesus, who teach Sunday School and put on Veggie Tales instead of something else. The encouragers, the givers, the doers. We work while we wait. We keep pointing everyone, everywhere, to The Oil. Of course we are tired, it’s late, but Jesus will return right on time.

Because we know Jesus as our Savior, we have oil in our lamps. We are anointed to spread the gospel in every big or small way The Holy Spirit equips us to. We literally carry The Light with us. I keep praying for myself and my sisters and brothers in Christ to find new ways to share the gospel in this ever-changing world. Not to erase the old ways but to build upon them. It used to be Bible tracks and tent revivals. Now the internet in inundated with people preaching either The Gospel or some other false gospel and a lot of people do not know how to tell the difference. That is a huge area that needs prayer. The Lord reminds me to pray for Christian radio stations a lot. I also pray for us as Christians to pass along what God doesn’t mean for us to keep. My sister always leant out Christian books to people at work and her family and friends. Now when I buy a great God centered book, I ask God who can I give it to when I’m done? When you see a good Christian movie, you can share a good review online or post it to your social media. Just posting an invitation online to your church’s VBS is spreading the gospel. That is pointing to The Oil. These micro acts can have eternal effects.

It’s hard to stay excited in the waiting. The good news is, even the smallest God led action is spreading the gospel, it’s staying awake and glorifying The Bridegroom. Jesus is coming. We can feel the excitement of our anticipation growing. Though our heart breaks for this wasting world, we are seeing prophecy come to life every single day. Our hope is animated like never before. King Jesus is coming. We can do it! I’m genuinely interested to hear what other small acts are you called to do? What interesting niche are you called to pray for? Share your ideas so we can be encouraged together. Our salvation (the oil in our lamps) can’t be shared but the gospel can!

© Bobbi Adams

Christian Forgiveness

1 Corinthians 13:4-5  Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 

 On my way into work this morning I was talking to God about someone I thought I had forgiven but I haven’t forgotten how they treated me. It is a person who hurt me deeply as a child. Someone who went out of their way to humiliate me when I was just a kid. It was an adult who professed to be a Christian. When this person’s name gets brought up I just smile and nod but my heart cringes. I remember what they did and how they went out of their way to do it. They were a person that other people thought highly of. They made sure I knew that I was less than. My circumstances were less than. My divorced parents? My beautiful, BEAUTIFUL, divorcee Mother, low-income lifestyle, clothes? My ADHD? Who knows. I just know that they were unkind to me and kind to others, and it confused me. I wanted them to like me, to experience their favor. What I got was cruelty. I have forgiven them a long time ago but, BUT, every time I hear something about this person, a little fire flares. Those embers that remain in your heart that never quite fully extinguish. Those thoughts that still sting are unforgiveness. They are my brain keeping a record of the wrongs they had done.

Christian Forgiveness is hard. It’s not like the world’s view of forgiveness. As a Christian we are required to forgive and the hardest part, keep no record of wrongs. As God’s child, we cannot hang onto festering fumes of anger and hurt. It’s hard enough to forgive but how do we forgive and forget?

In 1 Corinthians 13, The Bible says love. Love is patient and kind and keeps no records of wrong (vs 5) The ESV translates “keeping no record of wrongs” as not being resentful.

The NASB says love “does not keep an account of a wrong suffered“.  

To Take an account, to reckon, to keep track of in Greek Strong’s: 3049 logízomai (the root of the English terms “logic, logical“) – properly, compute, “take into account”; reckon (come to a “bottom-line”), i.e. reason to a logical conclusion (decision).

It’s the root of the English word logic. An accounting. To keep track of someone’s sins, to remember their wrong doings and to become resentful of them. The EXACT thing we hope The Lord Never does for us. The exact thing Jesus died to give us, forgiveness with no account, register or log of our flaws, failings and sin. God is not checking His record book of your wrongs. If God The Father was presented with a list of our sins, He would only see the brush strokes of His Sons precious blood painted over our worst transgressions. It defies logic. That is how powerful forgiveness in Christ is! It makes no sense, you can forgive and not keep a record of it. Hear this, You can because that is exactly what God (in Christ Jesus) does. He forgives us and remembers it no more.

Hebrews 8:12 For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more.”

Psalms 103:12 as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us.

Forgiveness is a two-step process. First, we drag it kicking and screaming before the Lord. He helps us whittle down the mountain (or maybe just a little hill) of hurt and anger until we can honestly say we forgive someone. Then the harder part, in my opinion, is to stop keeping a record of their wrongs. This isn’t done in a vacuum. We need God’s help to stop those intrusive thoughts and move forward. Of all the things Paul says love is in 1 Corinthians, it is all of those and it is also a practice. It is forgiving over and over in our hearts and minds. It is redirecting those angry, hurt feelings away from the person and putting our focus directly on The Holy Spirit to lead us away again and again until we are looking at it in the rearview mirror. Forgiveness is not pretty and it’s not easy. It’s that beautiful little flower that just suddenly pops up in the crack of a concrete sidewalk, surprising you with its beauty. It is an illogical miracle, one that can hardly be understood this side of heaven. One day it is not there and then suddenly it is. It is so precious to the Lord because if you can forgive the worst of what someone has done to you, you can briefly, infinitesimally, for one zeptosecond understand what it cost Jesus to forgive you. Illogical, illimitable love.

Fierce Christian Women

Years ago, at our church, there was a small select group of women that pretty much did everything. A lot of times it goes like that. You’ve heard the saying 20% of the people do 80% of the work. This was different though. They didn’t actually want help. Several women offered to help for upcoming events and they would get turned down. I don’t think they meant to be exclusive but that’s how it came off. I was one of the people that tried to volunteer. I was trying to make Christian friends and instead I felt shut out. Years later God has sifted and shifted our church and what remains is amazing. We do Women’s Bible Study on Mondays. A few years back, we were doing a particular study and we decided to have everyone give their testimony. Two or three women would stand up each week before we began and tell the story of their life. It was incredible. I had known these women for years but it wasn’t until I heard their stories that I really understood them. Stories of incredible pain, abuse, grief and ultimately, through the grace of God, victory. I already knew I liked all these women, truly liked them, but after hearing about the pieces of their journey, I was amazed and inspired by them. Lots of tears and laughter came from that time. I consider it a sacred gift from God that I got to experience that with them. Since then, I can honestly say, every one of us has bonded with the others. I can’t express to you what these women mean to me. They cheer me on, encourage me, pray over and for me. I know my prayer requests will be met with an onslaught of fierce women charging the gates of heaven on my behalf and I on theirs. What God has done is miraculous. A small preview of a heavenly community. Believer’s coming together to praise, worship and adore the one who loves us so dearly, He died for us.

We are all as real as it gets. No one tries to be the perfect christian. We have no need for pretenses. We bring it all. The ugly, the pain and the praise. By being able to be ourselves, we have found freedom in this perfection seeking world. I used to wonder why I couldn’t be the (almost) perfect christian since God was perfect. He deserves a much better daughter than me. But me, is who I am. After getting to know these fierce, incredible, christian women, I realize we all have areas that have yet to be sanctified. Not because I noticed that about them, it’s actually the opposite. They would say that about themselves and I would think, “No way”! I desperately needed their honesty to stop the cycle of self-condemnation. Had they pretended to be the perfect Christians, I would have believed that I was hopeless and the only one to struggle in my walk.

We take a break between each completed Bible study and I miss them, their fellowship. I miss the laughter and the tears. They are so precious to me, I can’t even imagine how this group must touch the heart of God. Oh, I still get to see them on Sundays, but still. I wish you went to my church. I would love to hear every fierce woman’s story, to get to know you for who you actually are and not who you think you should be. To hear your testimony. To pray for you and to love you like they have loved me, in spite of me. Isn’t that the exact kind of love Jesus was talking about when He said in John 13:34-35 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” that we love one another in spite of our flaws and imperfections? People who come to our church recognize right away the love we have for one another. They always comment how everyone is so nice and the best part of it for me is that it is 100% genuine. Now when we have an event, the majority of ladies say “what can I bring, how can I help?” Every one working together, no exceptions, no exclusions. A keyhole peek into eternity.

Proverbs 27:17  Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.

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